Style.

Good ol’ Merriam-Webster says style is:

2 a : a distinctive manner of expression  b : a distinctive manner or custom of behaving or conducting oneself  c : a particular manner or technique by which something is done, created, or performed .

Little did I know, its also this!: c. the filiform usually elongated part of the pistil bearing a stigma at its apex  AND! d : a slender elongated process (as a bristle) on an animal. (you just got learned!)

Lets ignore these last two and focus on the first one.  My question is this – Can style be learned? If it is learned can it also be genuine? and one final question – Can one learn style at the ripe age of 33?

My first theory was that you have to have alot of money to have style.  And while money certainly helps, my theory can be proven wrong very easily.  My next theory was that you had to be raised around style (like The Sartorialist) but that theory can be easily proven wrong also.  Obviously, people believe that style can be learned, I mean, there are piles upon piles of books written on the subject.  However, if one reads a book on the subject that doesn’t necessarily mean that one could then convey style.  And really, lets just take a look at the definition. A distinctive manner, a particular manner.  It doesn’t say anything about being able to pick out a good outfit.  Its the manner in which you wear the outfit. Its picking out an outfit that can best enhance your inner manner.  Is this right?

Here is my final theory and conclusion: people who exude a natural sense of style are born with a sort of brain disorder (much like OCD!) where they must have things look a certain way or they feel ill.  That much cannot be learned.  Everyone else are just posers who can either pull it off well or not so well.  People with true style are few and far between.  I have decided to read a couple books on the subject and search for my distinctive style.  I will keep you updated on this endeavor.