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  • Emilily 9:31 am on September 23, 2009 Permalink | Reply
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    Look out for the UPS man! 

    Because he’s bringing you a present!

    Here’s what’s in the box:

    1 embosser
    1 half-full L’Artisan Fleur d’Liane perfume sample (fleur d’liane means forest flower, and I’m not feeling this one as much as the tuberose, maybe because I have spent quite a bit of time in the forest and do not recall smelling anything remotely like this fragrance)
    from left to right: angels on bare skin face scrub, curly wurly shampoo for curly hair, vanilla fountain bath bomb, godiva solid conditioning shampoo, wiccy magic massage bar (also great to use as a general moisturizer), jungle solid conditioner, fresh farmacy face soap, honey I washed the kids soap, mudflats soap, and sea vegetable soap.

    Out of all the Lush products I have tried, my absolute favorites are the Angles On Bare Skin facial scrub and the Godiva solid shampoo. This is one reason I haven’t done any other beauty product reviews, because I am so completely satisfied with my current regime, which is pretty rare. I have spent a considerable amount of time and effort looking for healthy beauty products that work, and so far, Lush has been the absolute best, hands down. Everything is made with sustainable, ethically-sourced, natural ingredients, so there are no parabens, synthetic fragrances, colors, or other harmful chemicals. Most products are very minimally packaged, and the packaging that is used is 100% post-consumer recycled plastic. They don’t test on animals, they donate a high percentage of profits to charity, they have corporate Environmental Officers…I could go on, but the most important thing is, the products actually work really well. Enjoy!

    angelscurly wurlyvanilla fountaingodivawiccy magicjunglesoaps

     
    • Carmen 10:20 am on September 23, 2009 Permalink

      Oh my gosh, I’m totally stumped. Thats alot of stuff Emily! I’m going to be smelling so good. Oh UPS man, where are you?!

    • Emilily 10:42 am on September 23, 2009 Permalink

      well, it’s all sample size, they’re smaller than they look in the pics. And most of it was either chopped off the full-size products I currently use, or donated by the girls at the Lush store who were all too happy to help me convert you!

      p.s. I forgot one, too, there’s another face scrub called Black Angles, which is similar to the Angels on Bare Skin but with coal in it, for when your skin is feeling oily.

    • Carmen 4:12 pm on September 23, 2009 Permalink

      I forgot to say – Thank you!

    • Emilily 5:38 pm on September 23, 2009 Permalink

      Did you get it? Did you get it?

    • Carmen 11:53 pm on September 23, 2009 Permalink

      Not yet!

  • Emilily 2:55 pm on September 22, 2009 Permalink | Reply
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    no way!!! 

    I cannot believe it – I just won something! Like two months ago I was killing time (um, yeah, it was definitely not a Friday night) by entering all the free product giveaways on the Lucky Magazine website, and today I got an email telling me I just won a free Pangea Organics gift set! I don’t think I’ve ever won anything, so I’m pretty excited. I don’t even care if it sucks – it’s free!

    gift set

     
    • Carmen 3:14 pm on September 22, 2009 Permalink

      whoa! good job!

  • Emilily 8:49 am on September 21, 2009 Permalink | Reply
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    thank god I don’t look like Kate Gosselin 

    Here are some shots of the new haircut!

    frontsideback

     
    • Carmen 9:37 am on September 21, 2009 Permalink

      Yeah! Thats cute! and you don’t look goofy when you smile!

    • Briana 9:26 am on September 22, 2009 Permalink

      Does the haircut really make the smile??

    • Carmen 9:47 am on September 22, 2009 Permalink

      Well, i was referring to an earlier post where emily was looking all melodramatic and she said it was because she looks goofy when she smiles. So, it only sounds like a backhanded compliment, when in reality its a real compliment.

    • Emilily 7:26 pm on September 22, 2009 Permalink

      I did take it as a compliment, and I thought it was quite a nice thing to say. Although, if it had been a backhanded compliment, it would have been a really good one – high five!

  • Emilily 9:20 pm on September 20, 2009 Permalink | Reply
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    …because “angled bob” sounds better than “reverse mullet” 

    …which is basically what I got! Party in the front, business in the back, baby!

    I do like it, although I think I am having separation anxiety – I’ve been carrying this slightly damp ponytail around with me all afternoon…

    The talented Mr. Fisher...and what looks like a large wet rodent.

    The talented Mr. Fisher...and what looks like a large wet rodent.

    No turning back now!

    No turning back now!

    I'm not terrified...I always look this way when someone has clippers near my head.

    I'm not terrified...I always look this way when someone has clippers near my head.

    What, your stylist doesn't use a leaf blower to get all the little hairs off your neck too?

    What, your stylist doesn't use a leaf blower to get all the little hairs off your neck too?

    ta da!

    ta da! (btw- this is Dylan's back yard at his new place.)

     
    • Carmen 10:40 pm on September 20, 2009 Permalink

      wow. thats a pretty drastic change! no wonder you are having separation anxiety. holy crap that was alot of hair you cut off. Even though I can’t really see it from the front I have a feeling it looks really flippin awesome and I would bet money that you are going to have a lot of fun with it! So you’ll have to power through those moments when you wonder if you just made a big mistake and also those moments when people ask you “what did you do?!” Because the truth is that this is you and you are not defined by your hair, style comes from within and you can pull off any hairdo. You’ve had your hair suuuper short to reeeallly long and either way you look good. So my hat is off to you, looking forward to seeing more pics!

    • mia 3:16 pm on September 21, 2009 Permalink

      All I know is that I went to have a conversation with Emily’s hair and it was no where to be found. I hear its hitchhiking to some unknown location for some much needed R & R.

  • Carmen 8:34 pm on September 18, 2009 Permalink | Reply
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    Hair progression… 

    Well, in honor of you chopping your hair off in a day or two I thought I would post pictures of my hair growth.  This is a lame ass post i know, like who cares about my hair growing!  Well, you do, that I know.  And this blog is for you, my friend, so i’ll do posts about seemingly boring topics just for you!  Ok, lets get on with it.  This first picture is me back at the end of June.  And the next picture is me tonight!

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    • Emilily 11:12 am on September 19, 2009 Permalink

      Of course I care about your hair! I am following the transition from pixie to wicked cool faux hawk to – what’s next? – as if it were the concluding scene of part one of the season finale of BSG and they have just left me with To be continued… If I weren’t, we would be the type of friends for whom a simple weekly phone call “hi, how ya been?” would suffice; but we’re not. We have a blog. We have our own domain name. We have (pause for effect) business cards.

      So, from the other end of the hair spectrum…
      hair today

      I was allowing myself a moment of melodrama there…contemplating the weight of the vanity that will soon be shed. And it’s really not as serious as all that, I’ve just decided I usually look goofy when I smile in pictures.

    • Emilily 1:42 pm on September 19, 2009 Permalink

      Dude, I just thought of something funny. Too bad I’m not keeping my hair until Halloween, cause we could totally dress up as Samantha Ronson and Lindsay Lohan! I could wear leggings and lots of fake tanner and act like a drunken mess, and you could walk around all night with that “I’m with crazy” expression on your face and do some air-DJing on invisible turntables – it would be epic.

    • Ma 5:54 am on September 20, 2009 Permalink

      Oooo, this will be fun. Watching your hair grow from the 1/2 inch fuzz to the nine inch nails and all the awkward stages in between. Be brave. Be strong. Be lovely as always my baby girl.

    • Briana 9:30 am on September 22, 2009 Permalink

      rocking a totally punk do, like you should! Love it!

  • Emilily 4:41 pm on September 17, 2009 Permalink | Reply
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    confirming my suspicions… 

    ick…that Marc Jacobs is playing an evil joke on us all this season.

     
    • Carmen 4:46 pm on September 17, 2009 Permalink

      oooh, i like those.

    • Emilily 11:16 am on September 19, 2009 Permalink

      no you don’t.

  • Emilily 3:53 pm on September 17, 2009 Permalink | Reply
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    Anthropologie 

    I don’t like everything at Anthropologie, but every once and a while, I find a real treasure. I can go in there 10 times, and find nothing, then the next time, just randomly run across something that I absolutely have to have, and those finds are consistently my closet favorites, even years later. (Like that fuchsia dress!) They have some beautiful sweaters right now that would really help me in the transition to fall. I love all the draping!

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    • Carmen 4:13 pm on September 17, 2009 Permalink

      I thought you were downsizing your closet Emily. Oh hell, you can’t where t-shirts all winter! You better go shopping! Draping is definitely in these days. However, I have canceled draping from any future purchases I may make*. In the effort to change my style I have moved away from flying squirrel shirts and drapey stuff to a more sleek look. Going well so far.

      *This decision subject to change at any moment.

    • Emilily 4:26 pm on September 17, 2009 Permalink

      I am downsizing my closet, but I am allowed to dream!

      I am not sure if the ones with all the ruffles and embellishments are quite right for me, but I do like asymmetrical clothes, like the one on the far left especially. And I can’t help but be attracted to bright colors, like the red one, even though logically I know my wardrobe will be more cohesive if I stick to a more neutral palette…but good lord, I don’t want my style to be characterized by drapey colorful asymmetrical things!

      I probably still have some work to do on my personal style…

  • Carmen 11:54 am on September 17, 2009 Permalink | Reply
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    Cloche… 

    I’m really loving this style right now.  cloche

    Like I promised, I have been reading Elegance as I mentioned in this blog post.  It is quite beautiful and I love seeing the styles change depending on whats happening in the country.  My favorite style so far is the 20′s and out of the 20′s my most favorite thing is the cloche hat style.  This style was invented by Caroline Reboux, who made all the hot hats for all the hot people.  She was a self made woman who, like Chanel, grew up in an impoverished environment.  The cloches that I have seen for sale these days are hideous things that look like fisherman hats – not elegant at all.  If I can’t find one that I like I might have to try my hand at millinery and make my own!  I’ll keep you updated!

     
    • Emilily 12:30 pm on September 17, 2009 Permalink

      Oh I agree, I love the fashion of the 20′s as well. There was a decadence and riskiness to the style that was not seen for many decades afterward. Many of the dresses were scandalous for the time – and even by today’s standards some of those hemlines are high! – but they all had a certain class and grace that is lacking in a lot of today’s fashion.

  • Emilily 9:52 am on September 15, 2009 Permalink | Reply
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    Fashion week unfortunately has about as much impact on my life as a Canadian holiday 

    Perhaps you’ve already seen this, but just in case, Marc Jacobs Spring 2010.

    Honestly, I am not sure what is going on with about 90% of those outfits. I feel like the underwear-on-top-of-the-clothes look has been attempted a number of times before, and we can be fairly sure by now, it’s never going to look good. I do want to point out that, having purchased a fanny pack in the last year, I was clearly way ahead of the game on that trend!

    Here’s one I like: Donna Karan. I suppose it means she is bit tame, but I would wear every single outfit in this show.

    Finally, check out the first picture, here. Is it just me, or is there a trend towards giant, multi-colored feathered puffball clothing? And if so, why?

     
    • Carmen 8:49 pm on September 15, 2009 Permalink

      Ok, I agree with everything – Marc Jacobs (and I’ve said this before) – what is going on. i mean, seriously man. stop taking drugs, thats my only advice. Also, I’ve see this big bird trend before too and i have to say – scary. And I also agree with Donna Karan love. I like just about everything and I don’t think this means that she’s tame. It only means that she appreciates the same things that we do. Pretty, elegant, simple.

    • Ma 7:03 am on September 16, 2009 Permalink

      Yes, the fashions are pretty outrageous as always, but the New York Times webpages are nice! I just want the webpage design, forget the fashions.

  • Emilily 10:16 am on September 11, 2009 Permalink | Reply
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    signature scent 

    I especially like the laboratory packaging on these, and the fact that they can be customized!

    I especially like the laboratory packaging on these, and the fact that they can be customized!

    I have, up til now, never had a signature scent. I still don’t, but I’ve decided it is high time I found one.

    My current repetoire of perfumes includes: Michael Kors, Issey Miyake, Gucci Envy, and La Vanille Vanilla Grapefruit. Mainstream perfumes like Michael Kors and Gucci are so easy to get stuck with, but to me, they lack sophistication and uniqueness; they’re like shopping in the juniors section at Macy’s- it’s tempting, but probably just not a good idea at my age. The La Vanille is actually my favorite, because it is light and sweet and made without any crazy noxious chemicals….but most days, it is almost a little too light and sweet and I feel it should really only be worn as I run through a field of wildflowers chasing butterflies in the golden sunlight as a Stevie Nicks song plays down from the heavens, which I don’t do too often.

    Two other fragrances that I wear frequently (and as a result, have run out of) are Body by Victoria (I know, really? but it smells fantastic, and you never run into anyone else

    These come in 5 versions on one scent, each to be used at a different time of the day.

    These come in 5 versions of one scent, each to be used at a different time of the day.

    wearing it) and Burberry Brit. I have a love-hate relationship with Brit: when on, it smells sublime, but I can’t stand the ugly bottle. Also, more importantly, I want a perfume that inspires visions of lovliness, romance, mystery, and a soundtrack (see La Vanille description, above) – Burberry Brit makes me feel like I should be wearing lots of hairspray and buying fake handbags out of the back of a truck.

    Am I asking too much of a fragrance, that I expect it to transcend this hum-drum smells-like-white-bread reality, and transform me from Me into Princess Me, with just one spritz? I don’t think so, I just need to find a fragrance that can live up to my expectations…(wait, are we still talking about perfume here?) So I’ve posted three of my potentials here – Le Labo, Lisa Hoffman Variations, and Creed. Unfortunately, they are all fairly expensive, sold only at exclusive and inconveniently-located retailers, and none of them send free trials. How can I be expected to purchase perfume sight unseen? (And speaking of free samples, I did really like that L’Artisan Tuberose, that is definitely a finalist.)

    Creed has a unisex line with some of the most unique, lovely scents; unfortunately, they are also freakishly expense, even for fine perfume.

    Creed has a unisex line with some of the most unique, lovely scents; unfortunately, they are also freakishly expense, even for fine perfume.

    Lo and behold, I found this website while I was googling how to spell L’Artisan and they sell, for a nominal price, decanted samples of fine perfumes. I think I will purchase a few and check them out!

    Update: I have purchased some samples from the Perfumed Court website. I chose the 5 for $19 Creed samples (Himalaya, Virgin Island Water, Royal Water, Jasmal and Millesime Imperial .) I  considered trying some of the I Hate Perfume scents, but when I visited the website and saw what a self-absorbed douchebag the perfumer is, I decided to pass. I tried some Diptyque scents, as well, because they have no synthetic chemicals – de L’Eau, de Neroli, and des Hesperides. This was a three-piece sampler for $8. I also got the L’Artisan Fleur de Liane (which is supposed to smell like the forest after rain!) i Profumi di Firenzi Ambra del Nepal, and finally, the Jo Malone Night & Day set, Lotus Blossom and Dark Amber, each $3-4 per 1ml vial. Perhaps I will try them and then send them to you!

    Update #2, on CB I Hate Perfume: as douchy as this guy is, after further research, his perfumes do look so intriguing! I feel I must try M2 Black March, and In the Library.

     
    • Carmen 5:31 pm on September 12, 2009 Permalink

      You know I have the Le Labo kind – you were there when I got it. I really like the smell, its very refreshing. But now, after wearing it for a while I’m kind of over it. And after also going through the L’Artisan Tuberose (which I love) I’m kind of over that too. I like the idea of a “signature scent” but frankly I don’t think I can be committed to one scent for too long. I don’t have commitment issues, really I don’t. Ok, maybe a little one. But its a very discriminating issue. Anyways, the perfume that I found the most intriguing out of all your choices was the Lisa Hoffman Variations. I’ll try that one and let you know how it goes. That CB guy was unbelievable. Good luck with “In the Library”. If its anything like the San Francisco Library you’ll be smelling like – homeless.

  • Carmen 11:50 am on September 10, 2009 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: Dolce & Gabbana   

    geez… 

    This shirt would come in handy when I need to blow my nose.  Only $728 for an extra large tissue!  Thanks Dolce & Gabbana!

    tissue shirt

     
    • Emilily 11:55 am on September 10, 2009 Permalink

      yeah…gezundheit!

  • Carmen 9:49 pm on September 9, 2009 Permalink | Reply
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    Practicing Modelinia… 

    Ok, this was an experiment and as a disclaimer I would like to say that I don’t have all the right equipment that the makeup artists on Modelinia have.  Also, I was having a little bit too much fun.

    First I tried the “Warmed Up Look“….  do I look warmed up?  Ok, I know that didn’t work out quite well, its like a cross between warmed up and smoky eye and yet..neither.  By the way, this is my sexy face.

    Photo on 2009-09-09 at 19.19

    And then I tried “The Statement Lip” except I didn’t use that hideous hot purple that they use in the video.

    Photo on 2009-09-09 at 19.32

    And then I tried The Brow Wow!

    My favorite, although I got a little carried away.

    Photo on 2009-09-09 at 19.41

     
    • Ma 7:07 am on September 10, 2009 Permalink

      You are a paragons of pulchritude my darling. I especially like the Brow Wow look. So when you say you were having too much fun… does that mean that there was some form of fermented liquid involved?

    • Carmen 9:25 am on September 10, 2009 Permalink

      I was stone cold sober Ma! And nicely done busting out with the vocab. We’re starting a category soon that will involve our love of good verbiage, I’ll definitely have to include some pulchritude.

  • Emilily 10:30 am on September 9, 2009 Permalink | Reply
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    On the subject of style 

    Idea wall 02I thought since we were talking about personal style last week, I’d post my “idea wall.” I don’t know how it got that name, it started as a Cirque du Soliel calendar that had a kind of creepy picture one month, so I started clipping pictures of clothes and shoes I liked on top of it. Now I change the page each month, and it is always interesting to see what items make the cut from one month to the next. Some things get tossed at the end of the month, and I am glad I didn’t jump on that trend, and when something lasts for a few months, often I buy it (or something very similar.) Like those studded ballet flats from capezio (top right) have been up there for a long time….I hope soon they will be on my feet!

     
    • Carmen 11:27 am on September 9, 2009 Permalink

      Oh, thats very nice. You should laminate it when the year is over. It’ll be like a time capsule. Maybe I’ll start one!

    • Emilily 11:52 am on September 9, 2009 Permalink

      that’s actually a cool idea. If I had saved the discards each month, and left them all on a time line, I could look back over the year and see how my tastes had evolved. While it might not be that thrilling from just a “this is what i wanted to wear last year” perspective, wouldn’t it have been cool if we had done one of these in college? Or if our moms had done one when they were in college? I think we should develop this project more!

  • Carmen 8:20 pm on September 3, 2009 Permalink | Reply
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    On that note… 

    I’m glad you posted that last one about Lady Gaga, it segues so nicely into the post I’ve been thinking about.  This post contributes to quite a few of our interests.  It delves into the meaning of a word (our lexophile tendencies) and explores the branches of culture that come out of that word (i’m talking about clothes!).  The word is…

    Style.

    Good ol’ Merriam-Webster says style is:

    2 a : a distinctive manner of expression  b : a distinctive manner or custom of behaving or conducting oneself  c : a particular manner or technique by which something is done, created, or performed .

    Little did I know, its also this!: c. the filiform usually elongated part of the pistil bearing a stigma at its apex  AND! d : a slender elongated process (as a bristle) on an animal. (you just got learned!)

    Lets ignore these last two and focus on the first one.  My question is this – Can style be learned? If it is learned can it also be genuine? and one final question – Can one learn style at the ripe age of 33?

    My first theory was that you have to have alot of money to have style.  And while money certainly helps, my theory can be proven wrong very easily.  My next theory was that you had to be raised around style (like The Sartorialist) but that theory can be easily proven wrong also.  Obviously, people believe that style can be learned, I mean, there are piles upon piles of books written on the subject.  However, if one reads a book on the subject that doesn’t necessarily mean that one could then convey style.  And really, lets just take a look at the definition. A distinctive manner, a particular manner.  It doesn’t say anything about being able to pick out a good outfit.  Its the manner in which you wear the outfit. Its picking out an outfit that can best enhance your inner manner.  Is this right?

    Here is my final theory and conclusion: people who exude a natural sense of style are born with a sort of brain disorder (much like OCD!) where they must have things look a certain way or they feel ill.  That much cannot be learned.  Everyone else are just posers who can either pull it off well or not so well.  People with true style are few and far between.  I have decided to read a couple books on the subject and search for my distinctive style.  I will keep you updated on this endeavor.

     
    • Emilily 10:52 am on September 4, 2009 Permalink

      Style. Such a loaded word. I could really talk for hours about the elongated part of a flower pistil…

      I think style can be learned. But not like one learns math, out of a book, but more the way one learns courage, from an accumulation of life experiences that lead you to knowing yourself. However, just like some people never learn to be comfortable in their own skin, some people never learn good style, they just emulate others and follow trends. So we can prove theory one wrong – have you seen some of those red carpet get-ups that just don’t fit or flatter? There is an example of someone with loads of money, professional assistance, and cutting-edge dress designs at their disposal, and yet their outfits continually fail. Money can buy fancy clothes, not style…

      I think being raised around style would definitely help – it would make you aware of it’s existence, the way being raised around religion gives you knowledge of God and faith, but it does not guarantee that you will grow up to be a catholic. However, that theory doesn’t really hold water because then you would have families where every generation was stylish or every generation lacked style, and I don’t think that’s the case, because it would be too obvious. Plus, there is a general consensus, I think, that children learn as much from their peers as they do their parents, so perhaps being in a stylish environment can contribute to being stylish….like, say, being French. But that just proves that style is learned.

      I would agree with your conclusion, with one caveat. I think a personal style is developed as you grow older, and for people who are so inclined, it expresses itself in fashion. For example, my dad has his own “style”, but it is more geared towards economy and function, not aesthetics, color, or design. I think whenever a person’s outlook on life, their personality, their habits, starts to express itself in their outward appearance, this has to be considered a style. Some people are naturally very particular about things, whether it is their appearance, their home, or just weird personality quirks; if they also have a love of fashion, then this particularity could result in an innate sense of style.

      Take Lady Gaga – she has a style for sure, even though it is not in my taste. While I was looking for images of her, I found an article where she talked about her personal style inspirations, and she said that she studied the design of Thierry Mugler, and was attracted to outfits that paid homage to his work. So even though she might have a great natural ability to don weird get-ups, she’s also done some research as to how to channel that special, um, gift she’s got. I think everyone can learn it by simply paying attention to it, and cultivating it. I feel like reading fashion magazines and looking at shopping websites (like ShopBop’s lookbooks) is like doing personal style research, and sometimes when I wear a new outfit, it is like practicing. Practicing for what, I am not sure…but I would be interested in what comes of your research. What books are you going to read? How do you decide? It seems like you will have to pick ones where you like the style, because you will probably be influenced by it…or are you thinking more psychology-type books about how and why some people have style and some don’t? Yes, keep me updated!

    • Carmen 11:14 am on September 4, 2009 Permalink

      This is the first book I’m going to read on the subject: Elegance, I’ve been meaning to read it for a while now. Maybe I’ll post some pictures from it!

    • Ma 8:20 am on September 7, 2009 Permalink

      I think that everybody on earth has “style”. The style may be “frumpy”, “gaudy”, “high fashion” or like mine is… humm… ?, i really thought I had an answer to that… now i’m stumped.

  • Emilily 10:29 am on September 3, 2009 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: Lady Gaga,   

    Whoa 

    I have to hand it to the lady, it takes some work to make the refusal to wear pants one of the least shocking elements of your wardrobe. (Please note: in the far left, second row picture, those are red stilettos hanging from her ears.) I am not crazy about her music, but props for letting that freak flag fly.

    gaga01gaga06gaga05gaga04gaga03gaga02

     
    • Carmen 11:45 am on September 3, 2009 Permalink

      man we’re like telepathic! this will segue so nicely into my next post! stay tuned!

  • Emilily 10:03 am on September 2, 2009 Permalink | Reply
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    One of our favorites 

    I thought I’d do a little post on Nars Monoi Body Oil, since I love it so much, and I am almost out, and I think we should buy one of those packs where you get both the regular and the bronze, and then split it.

    Here’s some information about Francios Nars. He owns a small Tahitian island, Motu Tane. The Monoi Body Glow is made from the tiare flower, a type of white gardenia that only grows in French Polynesia. He created this book, which I am considering purchasing. And he takes totally creepy photographs, like the one below.

    creepy

     
    • Carmen 12:54 pm on September 2, 2009 Permalink

      I do love me some Nars. I’m wearing it right now and at certain times I will be transported to the Ban de Soleil commercial. I’m beginning to think time travel is not that difficult.
      You know, I did buy one of “those packs” and I gave the bronzer to Tuesday – she said it was pretty good but it gets on her clothes so she has to be careful with it. You should just get the jumbo jar.
      And I really think we should take a trip to French Polynesia.

    • Emilily 2:28 pm on September 2, 2009 Permalink

      Yeah, it does kind of get on your clothes, you have to rub it in really really well.

      I agree, this looks like a nice place for a vacation!

      bora bora

  • Emilily 4:44 pm on September 1, 2009 Permalink | Reply
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    huh? 

    Tom Ford

    Something about Tom Ford fragrances has always intrigued me, although I have never been able to find one I like. Maybe this is why…the tagline for Tom Ford’s new perfume, Urban Musk: The fragrance of bare skin, in a downtown club, sweaty from the music and scented with . . . other body parts.

    I’m sorry, but….ewww?

     
    • Carmen 9:00 pm on September 1, 2009 Permalink

      um, are you serious? i have to smell that because i bet you anything it smells more like a douchebag.

    • Emilily 9:43 am on September 2, 2009 Permalink

      That’s hilarious. And thanks a lot, now I will never be able to look at Tom Ford again without thinking “douchebag…”

  • Carmen 8:30 am on August 29, 2009 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: calvin klein   

    CK… 

    I don’t know why but I’m always drawn to Calvin Klein even though just saying “Calvin Klein” reminds me of cowboys in the 80′s. Why does that happen? I have no idea.  Maybe it was a marketing campaign they did in the eighties that just stuck in my mind.  Whatever it is – I like their stuff!  Its always a well done combination of simple and interesting.  I really like these dresses (even though I probably would never wear them, and I admit the second one is a bit bag-ish but there is still something cool about it) and I would imagine that you, especially, would like this jacket if only so you could run around pretending you were in Bladerunner.

    gilt2gilt1gilt3

     
    • Emilily 11:10 am on September 4, 2009 Permalink

      I think the marketing campaign they were known for in the 80′s was the one where an overly-sexed 15-yr old Brooke Shields talked dirty about her jeans, followed by that one featuring Marky Mark dancing around in his skivvies. I mean, how brilliant is that, to sell men’s underwear (and you knew that had to be what they were selling because that’s all he was wearing) with a commercial targeting every single 16-yr old post-NKOTB fan across the country.

      I do like those dresses, too. I like how his stuff is very minimal, and structural, although I think I would have a hard time wearing it.

      p.s. I totally run around pretending I am in bladerunner already

  • Carmen 10:07 am on August 24, 2009 Permalink | Reply
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    really? 

    First, from Hautelook and Amrita Singh:

    really?necklace

    Second (from Gilt):  Marc Jacobs if you’re so cool why are you doing this?

    dress

     
    • Emilily 5:17 pm on August 24, 2009 Permalink

      I know! And what was up with that Marc Jacobs model? Why does she look so depressed? If you ask me, she should be happy someone hired her, with that haircut…and that face.

  • Emilily 12:22 pm on August 21, 2009 Permalink | Reply
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    And on the fashion front! 

    There is some interesting stuff going on with Gilt Groupe today.

    I really love the structure of nearly all of the Donna Karan dresses, but this coat is a little confusing to me. Also, here are some nipples!

    On Gilt Fuse’s upcoming sales calendar, Sequin claims to be “well-made, well-priced costume jewelry.” Somewhere in that phrase is an oxymoron…

    new jeansAnd finally, I just bought these jeans! They were on special at Nordstrom’s although still quite pricey. I have been trying on various brands of skinny jeans, and they all make me look like I have the legs of a supermodel…just compressed, so they are disproportionately shorter and thicker. Then I accidentally tried on a pair that was “ankle-length” and viola! they fit. I am unconditionally against ankle-length pants, no matter how trendy they become, because the last thing I need to do is visually chop off even a few precious inches of my leg…but apparently, my leg ends where the average jeans-model’s ankle starts.

     
    • Carmen 12:54 pm on August 21, 2009 Permalink

      holy dear god who puked up a pink big bird all over that poor woman and now delusionally thinks its a coat? I agree with you that the sales are good today – I particularly like the Valentino Pret-a-Porter stuff – soooo pretty. And the Modern Vintage boots are all real nice too – too bad I can’t afford any of it… yet.

  • Carmen 11:24 pm on August 18, 2009 Permalink | Reply
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    In response to your bling quandary… 

    I’ve been thinking about your your bangle score at target and about my lack of jewelry and what that really means.  Here are my conclusions:  As much as I look at pictures of necklaces and earrings all the time – the fact that I don’t own any (anything wearable anyways) must mean that it is not really a priority of mine.  It must mean that I cherish the dinner that I spent $120 on much more than I would cherish a pretty, shiny, delicate little bird of a necklace laying lightly on my neck.  I think that my desire to increase my bling collection is an attempt to understand and feel more connected to my femininity.  And because it is a foreign enterprise for me I don’t really know where to start.  It just doesn’t come naturally to me.  This doesn’t mean I’m giving up, on the contrary!  I will continue to search out pieces that speak to me and I will try harder to forego the beautiful, fleeting meal and opt for the longevity of precious metals.  In the mean time I’m wondering what makes jewelry valuable?  Is it the price? Is it that you are able to buy it yourself or that someone else buys it for you? Or is it that there is a history behind it?  I have no idea, but I’m liking the jewelry I scored from my Grandma this last weekend.  She has SO much jewelry.  My papa used to buy her rings that looked like cartoon style engagement rings – you know with the huge stone and nothing else, he didn’t really care that they weren’t real and neither did she.  They were valuable because he gave them to her.  So I increased my bling collection with un-fancy, old pieces that look like they might have been made in the 70′s.  When I wear them I’ll think of my Grandma, I think that makes them better than anything I’ve seen twinkling at Bloomingdales.

    bluebutterflybangle

     
    • Emilily 12:13 pm on August 19, 2009 Permalink

      oh I agree! Even if they don’t immediately look like something you would buy in the store, they have a history, which gives them value of a different (and more lasting!) kind. Anyways, isn’t that really at the heart of what we’re looking for when we hunt for jewelry at the store? I mean, aside from color and design, which are sort of the basic considerations for everything we consume, not just jewelry, I really only know if I like something enough to buy it based on how it makes me feel. For example, I like my gold bangles because I can imagine they belonged to some gypsy princess caravaning by night through the countryside with her highwayman lover (aka Johnny Depp from Chocolat.) And I like my little gold leaf on a thread because it makes me think of wood nymphs and fairies and I am secretly channeling Tinkerbell when I wear it. Sometimes I suppose it is less complicated – I like hoop earrings because they make me feel simple and elegant, they allow me to play the part of Simple and Elegant Emily. Or, like you mentioned, a way of dressing for your role as the feminine side of Carmen. But either way, I think when we find jewelry we like, it is the story it invokes that lures us in, and in the case of your grandma’s jewelry, it is your story.

      (I should mention, I like the theory above because it sounds noble, and it makes me feel like my jewelry is more than pointless material consumption, but I think it probably doesn’t apply to everyone. Like some people pile on jewelry from Claire’s Boutique on a daily basis because they feel their outfit isn’t complete until it looks like the accessory counter barfed on them…I didn’t really have them in mind as I was making my point.)

      p.s. also, that butterfly charm would be really nice on a delicate chain, or maybe an aqua thread!

  • Carmen 11:36 am on August 18, 2009 Permalink | Reply
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    Speaking of Gilt Fuse Failure… 

    I don’t know if I can fault Gilt Fuse really, they are just the messenger.  Its really Madison Harding that is the culprit here:

    ugly shoes

     
    • Emilily 11:47 am on August 18, 2009 Permalink

      oh good lord make it stop

    • Emilily 12:09 pm on August 18, 2009 Permalink

      Sticking to the theme of questionable shoes – what do you think of these? Something about rubber shoes is appealing to me lately…

      hunter boots

    • Carmen 12:53 pm on August 18, 2009 Permalink

      well, i can see why these would be appealing to you – they’re flippin awesome. I am assuming they are galoshes and if they are not galoshes then we might have to have a talk. but otherwise, i agree!

    • Emilily 2:18 pm on August 18, 2009 Permalink

      Galoshes? Oh no, that’s the bottom half of my rubber suit, of course…

  • Emilily 11:48 pm on August 15, 2009 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: outfits   

    Just in time! 

    Since you’re up in the sticks, in the land that the internet and cell phone reception forgot, and we agreed I am responsible for posting this weekend – here it is! At, literally, the 11th hour. And although I have so much more to say (please feign surprise) I will end it with this: I hope you and Tuesday have room in your closets!

    Be prepared...my goal is to eliminate about two-thirds of my wardrobe!

    Be prepared...my goal is to eliminate about two-thirds of my wardrobe!

     
  • Emilily 12:48 pm on August 14, 2009 Permalink | Reply
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    Some investments might be overrated… 

    $7.99 each!

    No, I am not referring to Madoff, or Wall Street in general – although, on a side note,  don’t you find it interesting that here we are, an accountant and a paralegal, and we talk non-stop about science, fashion and art rather than the stock market, politics, or the economy? Anyways, I was thinking more about jewelry and how we have been on the look-out for “investment” pieces, or, at the very least, accessories that cost as much as last weekend’s dinner out. It doesn’t make sense – I’ll spend $100 (easy!) on a week’s worth of groceries, but can’t spend half of that on a pair of earrings I could wear for years. I have bought and returned a number of things, and considered buying many more, but somehow, nothing sticks. I can’t figure out why…I am a total sucker for marketing when it comes to beauty products; shampoos, conditioners, face creams…just tell me it is the fountain of youth and beauty, and I’m sold. But jewelry, you’d practically have to convince me it could make me fly before I throw down the cash for a little bling.

    $6.49 each!

    Lucky for me and my selective thriftiness, I found these great bracelets at Target last weekend! I got two in an antique silver finish for $6.49 each, and three in a clearly-not-gold gold vermiel for $7.99 each. Now that I am posting this, I don’t know if the pictures do them justice, they mostly just make my wrists look scrawny, and you can’t see the best part about them, which is how heavy they are. They must be solid brass (in my opinion, a truly underrated metal) underneath the coating because they clink together in the most lovely way, like wind chimes, or cymbals, or a big bag of silverware.

    I am happy to say that, for now, my jewelry hunt is over, and I got away with spending only $39.81! Now I can use all the money I saved to go invest in some gourmet cheese…

     
  • Emilily 3:35 pm on August 12, 2009 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: adirondack, converse, frye,   

    shoes shoes shoes 

    converseOkay, I love converse, and I love a high heel…but please oh please, not at the
    same time. I would normally say that any shoe could be improved with a bit of
    height, but NOT athletic shoes. (For example, I would also say that any beverage
    could be improved with a splash of champagne, EXCEPT coffee. See, there’s an
    exception to every good rule.) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxxx

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    adirondack

    xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
    xxxxxxx However, perhaps against my better judgment, I am still looking for an Adirondack
    boot with a heel – just like the one here, but with a 3+ inch wedge or cuban heel, and preferably not made by UGG. Somehow, UGG boots in my mind represent a very poor attempt to class up those sweatpants you should never have worn out of the house. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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    frye

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    And lastly, the boots that for months I have been coveting and stalking and making up little love songs in honor of, the Frye Harness Boot in Crazy Horse. I love everything about them – the walkable heel, the color, the name of the color, and the Lonesome Dove-esque androgynous cowboy fantasies they inspire…

     
    • Carmen 10:09 pm on August 12, 2009 Permalink

      I don’t know, I’m imagining wearing the high heeled converse….. and i think i would look pretty cool. oh wait, no, that daydream is turning horribly wrong and suddenly i’m one of the dancing girls on In Living Color.

    • Emilily 10:51 am on August 13, 2009 Permalink

      Flygirls!

    • megan 8:53 pm on September 14, 2011 Permalink

      i love and want the red converse heels any info on where or how i can get them?? VERY interested plz reply!!!!!!!!!

    • Helena 5:50 pm on February 21, 2012 Permalink

      Seriously!!! I bought mine in Amsterdam, and I never had so many responses, everybody tells me to sell them!! I think they’re really fun!!

  • Emilily 9:41 am on August 11, 2009 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: , Vivienne Westwood   

    plastic shoes 

    I cannot decide if I like these shoes or not, they’re on Gilt Groupe right now. I do love Vivienne Westwood, and jelly shoes bring back memories (ok, they bring back memories of being made fun of by some nasty sixth graders because my neon green jelly sandals did not match my home-made rainbow fairy costume, but jelly shoes are now super retro cool and those mean girls are probably fat and married to some knuckle-dragging mountain man and living in a double-wide in Orick, so there.) Anyways, do I love these or hate them?!?!

    Plastic shoes?

    Plastic shoes?

     
    • Carmen 10:23 am on August 11, 2009 Permalink

      well, its a tricky thing, and I understand your hesitation. This trend is appealing to me because the shoes look so clean and minimal – no lines, no embellishments. However, that is the only plus side I can come up with. I too remember the days of jellies and frankly would not want to be reminded of them every time I look down at my feet. Secondly, because I remember those days, I recall that my feet do not like the feel of plastic on my feet. Ok, I just thought of another plus side though – that the colors can be so vibrant, its almost like you’re wearing drops of candy on your feet….. hold the phone – thats a brilliant idea! Shoes made of candy! I’ll get working on that right now!

  • Carmen 4:06 pm on August 8, 2009 Permalink | Reply
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    new project? 

    What do you think about adding sequins to an old pair of shoes as a craft project?

    this picture was taken by garance dore  - she's so goooood.

    this picture was taken by garance dore - she's so goooood.

     
    • Emilily 1:08 pm on August 10, 2009 Permalink

      Well, it looks gorgeous, but also like a lot of work! I wonder if you could do something similar with krazyglue…

  • Carmen 9:53 am on August 6, 2009 Permalink | Reply
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    No no no – wrong 

    please make it stop

    why?

    why?

    Is this one better?

    Because the alternative is worse...

     
    • Emilily 11:24 am on August 6, 2009 Permalink

      Two slideshows for you:

      I am really liking these looks: Biker Brigade
      Whereas these are scaring the beejesus out of me me: Party like it’s 1983

    • Carmen 11:59 am on August 6, 2009 Permalink

      AAAAAAHHHHH! My eyes!

    • Carmen 12:44 pm on August 6, 2009 Permalink

      There is ALOT of good stuff in the biker brigade, also alot of questionable stuff. I like the Gareth Pugh pieces for sure. And of course Roberto Cavalli is always a winner.

  • Carmen 9:21 am on August 6, 2009 Permalink | Reply
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    New Gilt Pleasures! 

    Are you so excited about Gilt Fuse???  It will be cheaper and more edgy! Finally, I might be able to afford buying something from them!  It opens next wednesday only to members…. which we are.

    Gilt Fuse

     
    • Emilily 9:40 am on August 6, 2009 Permalink

      I didn’t know about this! I am excited! Cheaper is great! And edgier is good too, because I am sick of that frumpy 50′s librarian look like the last Marc Jacobs collection…

    • Elena 4:47 pm on August 7, 2009 Permalink

      You can use my GILT INVITE to access Gilt.com or FUSE designer sample sales http://www.giltgroupe.com/invite/egisele

    • Emilily 9:29 am on August 8, 2009 Permalink

      Thanks, Elena, that’s really nice of you! We actually have member log-ins already, but the link from our homepage automatically redirects to the log-in screen.

      p.s. And thanks for visiting our site, too!

  • Carmen 2:02 pm on August 4, 2009 Permalink | Reply
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    Places where fur is ok… 

    Yes!

    Yes!

    um, No.

    um, No.

     
    • Emilily 2:40 pm on August 4, 2009 Permalink

      That purse is hideous. It looks like it is growing hair. I think in order to wear fur, you have to adopt the proper attitude: Meeeeoooow!

    • Carmen 3:11 pm on August 4, 2009 Permalink

      wow.

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